Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Frustrated. *Vent*

Over the last 48 hours I have been hearing and reading a lot of comments saying that "those who voted for Obama were probably young, uneducated (collegiately anyway) 18 year olds who were doing it to be trendy and cool" . Just let that sink in for a moment.... By implication then, those who voted for McCain are older, educated persons not swayed by popular trends.

As a "educated" person this upsets me greatly. I take my voting responsibility very seriously. Prior to the election I spent several weeks reading and researching BOTH candidates platforms. Browsing both candidates websites as well as third party websites like CNN and other news. I watched all 3 Presidential debates as well as the Vice Presidential debate. I consider myself and informed voter. I am strongly against voting party line. I hate that button on the ballot which gives us the option to vote all democrat or all republican. Not all democrats are wild liberals who want to abort babies and take aways guns. Not all Republicans are Bible preaching, pro death penalty right wingers. We should be voting for a person, not a party. Voting for a party is the lazy way of doing things in my opinion. In fact, I'd be all for abolishing parties all together. I believe we need to have a balance across the spectrum of beliefs, platforms, and ideas and in order for our nation to run smoothly. Voting party line often involves a lot of assumptions, which is another thing that really irritates me.

Assumptions. Just because I'm LDS does NOT mean I'm a republican. And following the same argument, even if I was a republican, it doesn't mean I am because my parents were, or I am because everyone else in Utah is. Whatever I am, I am because I read. Because I research. Because I am involved. Because I can think for myself. Too often Republicans in Utah are stereotyped as just following the crowd and incapable of thinking for themselves. We need to fight against assumptions. I have often been asked the question, how I can be a good, God fearing, LDS woman and be a "liberal"- like the word is eternal damnation or something. I find this question so ignorant I'm not even going to take the time to give it a response.

Now that the election is over, we need to move past all the back biting and name calling. We need to be United. I would say this no matter the outcome of the election. Whoever you voted for, if you did your research and truly believed in your candidate; I respect you and your vote. We shouldn't spend our time categorizing each other as if one group of voters is more important than another. We all need to support our new President, regardless of how we voted. Because if we don't, we've failed before we've even begun. Divided we fail.

I'd like to propose a new rule for the next presidential campaign. I'd love to take credit for this idea, but in truth, my sister Alayna is the one that came up with it.
"In any debate, commercial, rallies, anything....you can only talk about YOURSELF and what YOU will do. You are NOT allowed to bring up the other person at all."
With this rule in place there would be no nasty name calling, no lies spread, and no negative ads. Political Utopia. It will never happen, but its nice to contemplate.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

8 Things

A coworker and good friend of mine tagged me this week and this one seemed like lots of fun, so here we go!

8 Favorite TV shows:
1. Prison Break
2. Desperate Housewives
3. Army Wives
4. Gray's Anatomy
5. Biggest Loser- my inspiration (I'd love to be on a biggest loser "normal just overweight folks!)
6. Extreme home makeover
7. Law and Order SVU
8. Criminal Minds

8 Favorite Resturuants:
1. Ruby River Steakhouse
2. Zupas
3. Cafe Rio
4. Iggy's
5. Round Table Pizza
6. Olive Garden
7. Friday's
8. The Roof (only been there once but it was amazing)

8 Things that Happened Yesterday:
1. I worked from home
2. Felt good about my job
3. Hated my job for a few moments
4. Watched my favorite shows
5. Read random people's blogs
6. Stayed up TOO late
7. VOTED! (okay that was today but I couldn't think of anything else)
8. Drove by our "pretty dirt lot" (again, today)

8 Things That I look Forward To:
1. My house being built
2. Moving into and decorating my very first house!
3. Taking Joshie trick or treating this Friday
4. Being debt free
5. Going to nursing school
6. Going to a graduate FNP program after nursing school
7. Vacation in Walt Disney World in November 2010
8. Some "Me" time

8 Things I love About Fall
1. Sweater weather!
2. Eating soup
3. Getting ready for the holidays
4. Vacations
5. Cheap utilities (no air conditioning and not much heating)
6. Countdown to Christmas
7. The beautiful colors
8. playing outside

8 Things on my wish list
1. To be a size 8 (only 2 sizes to go, i can do it!)
2. Someone to do my dishes all the time (but exactly the way i like it)
3. To have a large house with backyard and play set for the kids
4. A Kenmore Pro Series Kitchen
5. A date night with my husband every week
6. More time with my children
7. To not have to work full time
8. To never be sick again (my children as well)


I tag: Taylor K, Kalynne J, Jacob B

Friday, October 17, 2008

"Creditors have better memories than debtors" ~ Benjamin Franklin

Monday, October 13, 2008

Quote of the day

Quit trying to keep up with the Jones'. They're broke.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Sarah Palin Video

A good friend of mine from UCSD recently traveled to Wasilla Alaska to help create a documentary of sorts about the life of Sarah Palin. Here is a clip; its pretty interesting. I have friends with great talents!
http://wasillaproject.typepad.com/

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

The seasons are changing...




........and so are we!!!! Here are some
pictures from our fun sick free weekend!

Avalinea is growing up so fast!
She will be 9 months old this week!



Joshie would rather take pictures than be in them,
but I got a smile out of him a time or two this
weekend for the camera


He was enthralled with Uncle Ron's Bow and arrow....


....and Mom's Cheshire cat visor

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Our House! (sort of) ;-)

So below are some pictures of our up and coming house! We got to go to the design center today which was so much fun! It was like being on a shopping spree (within our small budget of course). Here are some pics of the stuff we chose!



Here is our carpet, paint color for the walls and
our wood flooring for the dining room, kitchen,
and half bath down stairs.


This is our Vinyl flooring for the bathrooms, and
laundry room. The countertop for the bathrooms
and Kitchen is on the top and the cabinet sample for
the whole house is on the right.


This is our master bathroom layout. Our walk
in closet is behind Josh. it is the size of a small
nursery!


Other side of master bath. We do not have the
window above the bath in our home.


Kitchen cabinets


Layout of our kitchen- I am really excited about
have the bar to eat at. (the post wont be there
it is just holding up the counter while the glue dries)


This is actually our same model, though we have a smaller porch. These are also the colors we chose.

I hope you all will come and visit when we finish at the end of February!!!